Enlightenment in the Dark of Long Distance Relationship

Long Distance (LD) Relationship always relates to negatives problems that will be a deal breaker of one relationship. The major is that your condition is separated by the time and the place. Have difficulties in communication and then get miscommunications are the side problems that appear after the main cause. It is easy to say “I’ll overcome all the problems because I love her” but when you experience it by yourself; your words change. Although one loves his girls or her boys, you are still human who need love. It is not only about giving love, but also how to be loved.

In the dark of LD relationship, there is enlightenment found if you think positively and you capable to finish all problems. GOD gives us problems to make the relationship tighten although sometimes the way isn’t easy to get through. The complicated relationship must be hurt but it will bring enlightenment, a strong bond. After you overcome the problems, your love will get more and more then you will reach the point that you can’t lose your boy/girlfriend.

It is so beautiful to have strong and tight bond in relationship but the way is difficult. Perfect Love, like I wrote before, is including sacrifice and with LD you are taught how to do that. From this sacrifice you should throw your selfishness because the world is not only about you anymore, but it is about our world. Think about the one whom you miss and love is the best way to help do sacrificing.

- Strong and tight bond in relationship will bring out Perfect Love -

Click!!

Can you imagine controlling the world with remote control? Everything in the world you can do with one thing, like you forgot to do something and you wanted to come back to the past, you can. It’s so awesome!

Michael, played by Adam Sandler, is a workaholic architect; as a result he puts his family in the second priority of his life. Every time his children ask him to play together, he always rejects it because of his project. He do all project perfectly to have a good reputation in front of the boss (David Hasselhoff). The worst, he rushes through love-making session with his wife (Kate Beckinsale). One time while he is looking for a universal remote, he gets a real universal remote control controlling his whole life. With this thing, he can move backward or make faster the time so everything he doesn’t like can be passed quickly. Michael enjoys using this remote but he doesn’t really know the effects. Everyday the time will be automatically faster, like he always fastens the time when he didn’t like the moment, and the result he loses his time either for the children or the project. Because of this, he doesn’t remember many things in his life, loosing his wife, marriage of his daughter and many things. This happens until he died because of heart attack. Fortunately, Michael is dreaming while he is sleeping in the bed at the time he looking for the remote in one mall.

I really like this movie, besides this movie is combination among comedy, drama and fantasy genres, because it has deep meaning of human life. When I saw “Click”, I felt like I was looking my life. I want to fasten the time when facing the problems, having a bad time and anything else that make me unhappy, but fortunately I don’t have the remote control. This movie give some study of life that we should face our problems and overcome it, so from that we shall become a wiser person. Problems’ escaping isn’t a solution; it will make worse the condition like in the movie, the time will go faster automatically. Every time I watched this movie, I am always remembered to respect and struggle my life.

The second, I can study about the priority of my life. Adam Sandler made the example of making the family in the second, and the job in the first. This kind of priority doesn’t exactly wrong, but I think it depend on the personality of the person. Personally, I will make the family as the first priority because without the family I can’t reach success in my works. The wife and children will give you more strength to stand in your problems. It makes sense because when you are in the bad time, your family is the right place to share the problems or do some interesting activity to make the problems easier.

Do your best and respect every hour, every minutes and every second of your life!