Wednesday, April 30, 2008

Enlightenment in the Dark of Long Distance Relationship

Long Distance (LD) Relationship always relates to negatives problems that will be a deal breaker of one relationship. The major is that your condition is separated by the time and the place. Have difficulties in communication and then get miscommunications are the side problems that appear after the main cause. It is easy to say “I’ll overcome all the problems because I love her” but when you experience it by yourself; your words change. Although one loves his girls or her boys, you are still human who need love. It is not only about giving love, but also how to be loved.

In the dark of LD relationship, there is enlightenment found if you think positively and you capable to finish all problems. GOD gives us problems to make the relationship tighten although sometimes the way isn’t easy to get through. The complicated relationship must be hurt but it will bring enlightenment, a strong bond. After you overcome the problems, your love will get more and more then you will reach the point that you can’t lose your boy/girlfriend.

It is so beautiful to have strong and tight bond in relationship but the way is difficult. Perfect Love, like I wrote before, is including sacrifice and with LD you are taught how to do that. From this sacrifice you should throw your selfishness because the world is not only about you anymore, but it is about our world. Think about the one whom you miss and love is the best way to help do sacrificing.

- Strong and tight bond in relationship will bring out Perfect Love -

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